No condomn no sex!!!

Ok so some startling news, a new report just out. People are no longer wearing condomns when having sex. This goes for one night stand, f---buddies, and just our regular partners. Ok, I know it is hard to ask your every day partner to wear a condemn, but considering how long it does take for the AIDs virus to show up on a test, would you rather not be safe than sorry? ( I just found out you can get the results in 30 minutes or less)

We all know it only takes once to get pregnant if your not trying, and if your trying sometimes it takes more than once. But think about it. You could be infected and not know it. You could be spreading the virus to a loved one.

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/are-people-seriously-not-using-condoms-anymore-come-on-195278/

So with that said, let touch a little bit about the over talked about teen pregnancy pact. Everyone wants to blame someone.

Ok, your not going to like this but, blame the girls who did this. They knew what they were doing. They knew they would cause problems, they didn't care. They wanted a baby. So rather than point fingers now, make them suck it up. Make them the responsible members of society and stop giving them hand outs. They need to get jobs to support the child. " oh they are only children themselves how can you say this???"

Let me tell you. There are millions of teen mothers out there every day, who have dropped out of school, raising families and are productive members of society. When they got pregnant we did not point fingers at the school, the family or the community. We just said oh well, and turned our backs and went on with life.

Most of these girls ended up on the streets. Hello???? Just because there are 17 in this community? yes this is a problem, but a problem that these teen mothers need to solve.
They can work and go to school.

Lets look at people like Whoopie Goldberg. Teen parent. worked, went to school and is a contributing member of society. How many others are there out there like her? Tons.

I know I must sound cold. I know people worry about the babies. That is understandable. But "society" as a whole has made it too easy for teens who have babies. They point at the parents, belittle the parents and make the parents feel responsible.

Let me tell you. My daughter was out of control as a teen. She would sneek out at night. Every night I would get up several times just to check on her. Every time she was gone, I would call the police and report her as a run away. I tried hard to keep the lines of communication open. I tried counseling. I tried staying at home and being with her constantly. I even went before the judge and ask the she be placed in lock up because I knew she would commit a crime. They told me no.

No one would help me. So I kept reporting her everytime she would leave the house with out my premission. She would be gone for days. I never knew where she was. And believe it or not, there were parents in the community that help hide her from me. (Which is against the law)

Finally she ended up pregnant. Then it was my fault. Go figure. So don't blame the parents. You don't really know what they have had to put up with. You have not walked in their shoes.
Just make sure the teens become good parents. Pray for their children that they will have better choice than what these 17 stupid teens made