One Night Stands

I read an article about one night stands and how women regret them more than men do. I guess I am an exception to the rule. I have never regreted a one night stand. In fact I have encouraged one night stands.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2193328/Women-have-more-regrets-than-men-over-one-night-stands.html

Don't get me wrong, I think men are great and they have a lot to offer in a relationship. I just don't have a lot of patience for them. I don't see eye to eye with most men. I guess the way I look at things tends to be out of the norm.

I like that they make me look at life a little differently. Each guy has offered a different insight to the world and their veiws tend to be interesting. It is always interesting to find out what they see as being important to them.

Some think that sports is the most important thing, others food, and some even place sex at the top of the list. Wow, who would have guessed? Then there are those few who say what they think you want to hear, the ones who want more than just a one night stand? Family, career, spouse.

Now I am on my 4th marriage. The first marriage, the number one thing on the list was parties, granted we were 18 with a child. I stay in touch with this man, because of my daughters. Now after suffering a heart attack and diabetes, do you know what his number one thing is now at the age of 48? Parties and a good time.

Marriage number 2. This marriage a little more sensable. I guess. I looked for a good God fearing man with a stable home life. His parents never divoriced. We actually lived together for about 3 years before we got married. I got an annulment from my first husband and I was allowed to get married in a Catholic church.

The number one thing in his life was money, closely followed by sex. This was a good thing, or so I thought. I was put on an allowance of 5 dollars a week and I was not to handle any of the money. I worked a full time job as well as he did. We were saving for a house. So I bit my tongue and put up with it. Only to find out he was sexually attracted to younger women... much younger well girls... little girls... I quickly divoriced him. But it was too late. My daughter suffered.

Husband #3, money was not an issue, mainly because he did not care. He did not have a job, he lived off his mom. I should have run the other way. But I didn't. I just knew he would change. I worked, he stayed home. That never changed.

Husband #4, Retired military. Set in his ways. Sex is not an issue. Never will be, because it does not function, as in, it does not get hard. Besides he is not that good in bed and I have given up on him. He does not like my kids, My kids do not like him. I play mediator between them . I am growing tired. I am ready to move on.

Will I get married again? Hell No. I will just buy stock in condoms and batteries and have my pleasure that way.

No condoms no sex.

So as far as regretting one night stands ????? Never!!! I have never regretted any one night stand. I never will, and I look forward to many many more.