Thursday, July 17, 2008

Younger men vs older men

Someone asked me today, why do you date younger men.

Hmmm, there are lots of reasons. So I decided to blog it and see if I really know why. So this is my tribute to younger men.

The younger man has always been more attentive. I have watched them pay attention to what I do. They "study" you. They learn about you. I once asked one why do you watch me so much. He said he wanted to know what made me tick. So I asked him some questions. Surprisingly, he knew what my favorite color was, how I drank my coffee, what I prefered for breakfast. I was quite taken by this. He even knew my routine for an average work day.

I also found that he was more open and honest than guys my age. It was like he didn't have anything to prove. There was no "expectations". Meaning, I didn't expect him to behave a certain way, he just did it. I never had to ask him to do anything because he would just do what he thought needed to be done. This created an easier life.

He liked that I was settled in life. My career was established. I was not in constant stress trying to be something I was not. There was not alot of drama in my life. I knew who I was and what I wanted. He liked that I did not have games that I played.

So it comes down to this. A younger guy has more stamina, and is willing to learn new things, especially in bed. A younger guy, follows directions with out questioning because they know your not trying to control them, your trying to help them. A younger guy knows you have their best thoughts in mind. They know your not using them. (ok for some of us anyway)
A younger guy treats you better and more like a person. It is not all about them

Most guys, (not all) I know that are my age, are going through there second childhood and it is all about them.

With younger guys, it is about me. Which in turn creates a mood of "its about us"

Don't get me wrong. Older men or men my age can have a lot of positive as well. I just find I have way more fun with a younger guy.

Given the choice???? I would choose a younger man anyday. Besides isn't it all about the sex?

1 comment:

Cinnamon Girl said...

Plus I think being younger robs them of the inate superiority complex that goes along with a set of balls ;)