Child Custody

This is a touchy subject. I know I will step on toes here. But please keep in mind I am dealing with only ONE family in particular and not people in general here.

My oldest daughter is not the brightest light bulb in the pack. She tends to do what pleases her and not really what is in the best interest of those that depend on her. (Meaning her kids.)

A few years back she lost custody of her son to his father because "she lived a vagabon lifestyle" .
Even though they always had a roof over her and her childrens head, they moved around alot.
Which means the kids moved too, and her son changed schools alot. He was doing poorly in school.

Well the father, who was a dead beat dad, got his act together, expoushed his and his now wife's past record and applied for custody after several custodial interferance issues.

Well my daughters lawyer was worthless and didn't bring up any issues and lost custody.

Now every time my daughter turns around she is being harrassed by the dad for something.

To make a long story short, My grandson was allowed to come visit us for a week. He came to us bearing worms. I kid you not, the child has worms. He told his " step mom". She said oh it is ok all boys get them and they just go away.

So we took him to the doctor and got him medicine. The problem is --- dad won't listen.
I don't know what to do.

My daughter does not want to do anything. She does not want to make waves.

I just have to stay out of it.

I am furious.

I am angry.

I over stepped my bounds and called my daughters lawyer.
I am waiting for a call back.
As far as I am concerned this is child neglect.

I want to press charges. My daughter might not but I do.