Solitude

According to Websters dictionary -

Solitude: The state of being alone. Isolation. A secluded or lonely place.

I live such a busy life. I have people in my life all the time. Yet there are times that I want solitude. And sometimes, with all the people in my life, I feel solitary, meaning, I feel like I am in a corner watching the world go by.

This is not a bad thing. It is a frame of mind. Maybe it is my escape from the hustle and bustle of the busy day. Maybe it is the "time out" I need to refresh my thoughts. What ever it is, it is nice.

Some people feel solitude is a bad thing. My family worries about me having a solitary life. Yes I am married but if this marriage should not work out, and I become single, they worry about it. They don't want me to be alone. Since when does being alone become a bad thing?

Maybe being alone is Gods reward for a life well lived. Maybe it is the opposite? Either way, some people are perfectly fine with a solitary life. That does not make them weird. It does not in any way make them anti social. They just enjoy a quiet life. They enjoy peace and quiet.

People find it odd these days that one wants to be alone. "She needs a husband." or "He needs a mate." What ever. Leave these people alone. They are happy.

They are happy with the life they have choosen. Don't try to push your life or beliefs on to them. Let them have their solitude.

Don't think for one second that they are unhappy for being alone. They have all kinds of thing that make them happy and I bet they do those thing when they want to do them. They don't have to schedule around someone else to do them. They don't have to coordinate schedules.
They just do it when and if they want.

The point of this blog today????

Leave people alone. Let them live the life they want to live. Don't try to "make a life" for someone who is single. The fact of the matter is, they may already be as happy as shit.